Autobiography of a Face Part One……….Lucy Grealy

 
“Their Approval or disapproval defined everything for me, and I believed with every cell in my body that approval wasn't written into my particular script.”


“I was responsible for my mother’s unhappy life.”

“Fascinated by how much pain I was in and by how strangely peaceful I felt.”

“She told me how brave I was and how lucky we all were that this had happened to me and not Sarah, my twin sister.”

“I loved any chances to drive through the filthy, bewildering streets of New York, see so many different types of people, marvel that so many noises could exist all at once.”

“All I had to do was perform heroically and I could personally save my entire family.”

“I’d consciously packed no stuffed animal to bring to the hospital. I was of paramount importance that I appear adult, strong, unafraid.”

“Not one person ever said the word cancer to me, at least not in a way that registered as pertaining to me.”


“Sooner or later we all have to learn the words with which to name our own private losses, but then we just stood there in a front of the nurses’ desk, speechless.”



 

Lucy family was not the type of supportive or emotional family. Lucy’s family related to David Small’s family. The both families were dysfunctional in way and demonstrated that they had to be strong and should not show any sign of crying because it was sign of weakness. Both families had issues on how they will get money to pay for their child’s treatment. Also, Lucy and David had trouble through their childhood of finding their own identity but eventually David found his pathway through life.

 

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